The art of a handjob


I’m not sure why and maybe it’s just me but it seems the hand job is a thing of the past. Maybe it’s different in your world and you receive/give them all the time but just in case there are other men out there who are not getting, them I’ve decided to write about it.
Not to mention I’ve received a couple request from both men and women asking me to.
Step one on how to give a great hand job……Use your mouth. LMAO just kidding…..well….maybe 😉

What most women don’t know is some of us guys enjoy a good hand job as much as we do a blow job, the only problem is most women don’t really know how to properly give one.
I’m not trying to be mean here ladies so hear me out. In my experience most women when giving a hand job usually dab some lotion on it and start stroking, one speed and one stroke. Then right before the magical moment happens she stops to switch hands and its game over time to start over.

For that very reason most men including myself won’t ask for one and prefer just to take matters in our own hands (pun intended)
Like most men I assume, I had given up on the possibility of ever getting a great hand job when I met what I’m going to refer to as the Hand Job Goddess.
Let me set the stage for you.
I’m dating this girl and things are going pretty good when she offers to give me a massage one evening. Now me being the gentleman that I am, there’s no way in hell I’m going to tell a pretty lady she can’t strip me naked and rub all over me.
So I’m lying there on my stomach and she breaks out the massage oil (not lotion) and proceeds to give me a very relaxing and much needed massage. She gets to my ass and me being the experienced massage receiver that I am, I thought nothing of her massaging my ass, until she reached under me and gently pulled my cock to where it was now sticking out between my legs. She then very lightly started to rub it. Now at this point I’m starting to develop feelings for this long legged beauty because clearly she knows something my precious girlfriends of the past didn’t know.
After a few minutes of some very light teasing with one hand and massaging with the other she asked me to roll over…again, I was more than happy to oblige and the anticipation of things to come (again, pun intended) was about to get the best of me.
What happened next is going to be impossible to describe but I’m going to attempt it anyhow.
She poured what seemed to be about half a bottle of massage oil all over my utmost southern region and allowed it to run down to my balls. Then with the lightest touch humanly possible she began to stroke me, rub me and tease me. Now there is a huge difference between what this woman was doing and the manly stroking I’ve been known to give myself. Neither my own technique nor the rough and steady strokes of previous girlfriends could compare and to be honest, I’m pretty sure I heard angels singing.
This went one for about a half hour, not the rushed paint shaker pumping I was used to. Her touch was so light I swear it was torture at times…..the sweetest torture I’ve ever experienced. She knew exactly when to vary the stroke and or pressure of her touch.
So how can you learn to give your man that exact kind of experience? I’m glad you asked.
Number one I recommend using oil instead of lotion, and be sure to use plenty of it. Have him lie on a towel and be very generous with the oil…he will thank you for it later and will never bitch about the added cost.
Change up the pressure; use your fingertips some instead of your whole hand. Rub him, tease him. Lightly rub the head with a single fingertip. Caress the head with your hand…use your imagination. He will love all of it.
Vary the kind of stroke you use and keep in mind it doesn’t always have to be a stroke. You can always go back to the paint shaker type stroke when you’re ready to finish him off.

The fire-starter:
Hold his penis between both hands and gently rub it like you’re trying to start a fire.
Cock ring:
Firmly grip the base of his penis with one hand then with your thumb and forefinger of your other hand (forming a circle) start at the top and stroke down. Or you can use your thumb and fingertips and lightly stroke up starting at the bottom of the head.
The twist:
Turn your hand upside down (you should be able to see the back of your hand with the thumb at the bottom) with fingers circling his shaft move your hand up, slowly twisting around until you reach the tip. Release your fingers and let your palm glide over the head then back down to the base.
Palms:
Use your open palm to swirl around the head. This will make him harder and more sensitive.
Healing stroke:
With the penis lying flat on the man’s stomach, softly grip or hold the penis down and gently rub from tip to base, either with fingertips or your palm.

Anvil Stroke:
Start with one hand grasping the tip of his penis then stroke all the way down. When you hit the bottom immediately start the same stroke with your other hand.
The Doorknob:
Turn the head of his penis (lightly) like you’re trying to turn a doorknob. Turn it back the other way.
You can also use this stroke after forming a circle with your other hand. Grip his shaft firmly enough so when you slide your hand to the base it pulls the skin tight. Hold it then start the doorknob with your other hand.

Two hand grip:
Grip his penis in both hands interlocking your fingers. Starting at the top perform a downward stroke adding a little pressure as you slide over the head. You can also vary this stroke by adding a twist. (Release the pressure before you twist)

These are just a few of the strokes you can use.

Use your imagination and create your own stroke. Just remember to change it up.
Some other tips:
Don’t forget the boys. While performing these and other strokes gently rub or pull on his balls. Ask him what he likes.
Some men also like to have their ass rubbed and or fingered. Just be sure he’s open to it before surprising him with the finger 😉
For more information and instructions on how to give a great hand job and have your man calling you the Hand Job Goddess please visit: http://82646vjj-0sr3od2fgodw2fo6p.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=BLOG79

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10 Responses to The art of a handjob

  1. c'meregrl says:

    Very informative. Thank you I’m sure someone will be calling me that in no time at all 😉

  2. Carmen says:

    Love it and I for one am glad you are back! My goal…Hand Job Goddess lol pinned and tweeted and shared (privately)

  3. Sheri says:

    As always you do an amazing job explaining techniques. The best part about your blogs are the topics that most couples wouldn’t even discuss much less think about. I believe a lot of couples don’t take the time to explore or learn their partners body. Communication is the most important thing and you touch on that in almost every topic you write about. That alone will make their bond with each other stronger which in turn makes the sex that much better on an emotional level as well as a physical one. Thanks again and as always…great job 🙂

  4. Kandy says:

    I am so excited to try this with my Sweetie, He will be calling me the Queen Sweet Kandy!

  5. Bey says:

    *laughs* I love this. Yes… definitely “The twist” and “Anvil stroke” Two of my favourites.
    *thumbs up*

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