Three types of female orgasms part two


If you havent read part one you can find it here.

 

Vaginal Orgasm – This type of orgasm can be much more powerful and be felt throughout the body.

Surprisingly enough as I’ve already mentioned in the part one of this blog, only twenty percent of women have experienced a vaginal orgasm…..How sad is that? We as men have failed in providing real pleasure to our lovers.

The Vaginal orgasm can be a little harder to pull off, especially if she’s never had one. As I stated in part one, make sure she’s relaxed and be damn sure she’s wet.

Now for the sake of keeping this blog kind of short I am assuming  that you the reader knows how to get the G-spot to swell….If you don’t let me know by email or comment and I’ll write a blog post on how to.

So she’s wet, aroused and her G-spot is swollen.

Insert one finger (you can add more later if needed) and press up towards the top of her vagina.

An aroused G-spot will have a wrinkled or ridge feel (Much like the roof of your mouth)   compared the smooth area around it.

The G-spot is more of an area instead of a spot. it varies in size, It usually starts out about the size of a dime and grows to about the size of a quarter as she becomes more aroused.

The G-spot is located 1”-3” inside and along the front or upper wall.

The G-spot responds to firm or direct stimulation.

The easiest way to stimulate the G-spot is with the “come here” motion. With your finger inserted  curl your finger back towards you in the “come here” motion, your fingertip will bump and slide across the G-spot. Start out with slow short strokes until you get a feel for what she likes then you can speed up or perform longer strokes.

Once she is used to it or if she has been stimulated this way before you can do my personal favorite and what I call the bounce.

Once she is fully aroused and the G-spot is clearly defined insert your middle finger and bounce from lower wall to upper wall making direct and really firm contact with the G-spot….Her orgasm will be extremely intense when coming this way. You will feel her walls tighten around your finger…sometimes so tight you can hardly move with any speed…that’s ok just keep tapping it until you feel her start to relax.

As always you will want to experiment together and see what she likes best. The above two techniques will work every time when performed correctly.

There is some evidence that the intensity of a woman’s G-spot orgasm is mediated by the hormone estrogen. Most young women under 30 find clitoral orgasms to be more powerful because, due to their relatively high estrogen levels, their vaginal lining becomes too thick to allow direct stimulation of their G-spot nerves.

As the estrogen level begins to decline in women during their 30s, the vaginal lining becomes thinner and the G-spot becomes more accessible. That’s why most women feel that they begin to peak sexually in their early to mid-30s.

 

Female ejaculation/ the squirting orgasm.

This is the most powerful orgasm a woman can have and yet very few women do. Those that do are usually left trembling afterwards.

Ok…I’m going to get a little technical on you here….surprised? lol

The G-spot is actually part of the Urethral sponge and when a woman becomes aroused it starts to swell. What causes the swelling is the G-spot is actually filling up with fluid.

As the woman starts to have an orgasm this fluid is pushed out the urethra (Pee-hole). IT’S NOT PEE.  It comes from the female prostate and contains glucose so it has a sweet taste.

She/you will feel the urge to pee and usually squeeze her PC muscles in order to stop it…what she’s doing is actually robbing herself from a very intense orgasm, By stopping or squeezing the PC muscles you are only experiencing half of the orgasm you are capable of experiencing.  What she/you should do instead is push when you feel the urge to pee.

The best way to feel comfortable is to make sure you empty your bladder prior to sexual activity that way you can feel assured that it’s not pee….in my experience the biggest obstacle I’ve faced when trying to make a woman squirt has been her mind….once I’ve convinced her to empty her bladder prior to sex and to trust me enough to let go and push I’ve managed to get her to squirt 100 percent of the time.

This type of orgasm will completely blow her mind if she’s never experienced it before….I recommend every woman experiencing this at least once.

The best way to experience the squirting orgasm is tons of foreplay, make sure she is very aroused and give her a couple clitoral orgasms….or as many as she can take. Keep checking the G-spot and once she is swollen and ready stimulate the G-spot with the bouncing technique hard and fast.

If you have any questions or maybe a subject you would like to see a blog post about please feel free to email me at sexpertadvice@hotmail.com

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12 Responses to Three types of female orgasms part two

  1. dawn8869 says:

    This needs to be a how to guide for men… Seriously you need to hold classes or something.. No man I have ever known was educated in this way.. I find it very sensual and sexy that you take the time to learn what pleases us women the most. Loved it.. Thank you for taking the time to write this its very much appreciated. I might have to print this out and keep it in my purse so when I have sex again I can pull it out.. Read this or you ain’t getting in my pants hahahaha

  2. Lois says:

    Orgasm for Dummies 😉 but seriously, I agree with Dawn that it is remarkable that you have taken the interest and time to educate yourself on how to please a woman. I’d like to see the statistics on that! Extremely minute I am sure.

    You have yet again given us another mind blowing experience with your blog.

    I’m so glad that you were inspired to start this blog. I’m sure it has and will help many men and women to experience a better sex life.

  3. This is amazing. It is beyond me that most men dont take the time to learn these things. I myself always thought I was hard to please until I was shown otherwise 🙂 Kudos on another great blog! I will be looking forward to the next one! 🙂

  4. Carmen says:

    You must do a lot of homework for your blog. I’ve never experienced the “squirt”, but now I really want to, badly!! Again your blog is well written & highly informative. Love it!!

    • Actually the homework started several years ago when I was married. My wife didnt want to have sex with me so I assumed it was me and started a journey to learn everything I could about sex and pleasing a woman..Thank you for commenting

  5. gloria says:

    I’ve learned so much in your blog. Keep it going!

  6. Thank you…I will 🙂

  7. Pammie says:

    Holy sh*t….I didn’t realize that ALL women could squirt….Bucket List #30 bumped up to #2…. and that is all I am saying on the matter…:)

  8. buffykennedy says:

    What Pammie said!!

    You write very enlightening stuff and in a factual way (so it doesn’t feel smutty or something lol). Thank you for sharing your knowledge, and thank you Ditter Tha Great for leading me here!!

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